
Wife dumps husband over 'virtual affair'
A woman has divorced her husband after she caught him repeatedly "cheating" on her in the online game Second Life (see pic of the couple above).
British woman Amy Taylor, 28, fell in love with countryman David Pollard, 40, after they met in an internet chat forum.
The pair met up in person and married in July 2005, but both maintained a strong presence online by setting up avatars — virtual representations of themselves — in the game Second Life.
But their relationship ran into to trouble when Ms Taylor arrived home one night to find Mr Pollard at the computer watching his avatar have sex with a prostitute.
When she confronted him about it, Mr Pollard insisted the online encounter meant nothing and maintained he was being faithful to her.
"I went mad — I was so hurt," she was quoted as saying in UK tabloid The Daily Mail.
"But he didn't see it as a problem, and couldn't see why I was so upset. He said I was just making a big fuss and tried to make out it was my fault for not giving him enough attention."
The pair then reconciled — until another incident in April this year when Ms Taylor caught her husband's character canoodling a young female avatar on a couch.
She demanded to view her husband's chat history after learning the female character belonged to a real-life woman in the United States.
But Mr Pollard erased the records before she could look at them.
"I ended up going off in floods of tears," she said.
"He confessed he'd been talking to this woman player in America for one or two weeks, and said our marriage was over and he didn't love me anymore, and we should never have got married."
Ms Taylor said she filed for divorce the next day.
But in a further twist in the tale, the recent divorcee is now seeing a man she met in another virtual universe — World of Warcraft.
Her new romance had helped her move on from a "terrible" period in her life, she said.
4 comments:
Let me be the devils advocate here ... Recently discovering that my rl partner has been married to a sl female for a while now . Whislt he says it is just a friendship it is affecting our real life ie he keeps awake all night and sleeps all day not working as he does temp work so all of the bills are paid for by myself . The "partner" in sl is fed total bullshit about me and I would dearly love to offer my side of the story and drop a few bombshells however I promised not to do that . I am appalled at reading so much shit about myself so that my rl partner can get sympathy from this woman who admits that she spends all of her waking time online .. shouldnt she be looking after her husband (who does not know about this either) or kids? Its fine if no one gets hurt and I am happy you are happy however its kind of hard when the rl people are always labelled the evil ones. I could go on however I wont ... I am in 2 minds as to whether to actually go onto these forums and clear my name .. its amazing what one can find out when surfing the net .. anyway thats about it for now .. maybe you should set up a support network for people that have been slandered online ?
Hi Anon,
You should contact me at sl2rllove@gmail.com if you want to chat about this. I can imagine what you are going through is quite difficult...and if I can help you with a little advice I'll surely be happy to do that. -RR
I am married IRL and when I first joined SL my marriage was in a really rocky place and I was very lonely. I met a man in SL whom I seemed to have everything in common with and we would spend hours together on line and quickly things became "romantic" between us. At first I justified myself by telling myself it was only a game it wasn't real but one thing people need to understand right off the bat about SL is that there are real feelings and emotions behind the avs and when anything real is introduced its no longer "just a game." This thing with the SL guy only went on for a few weeks but very quickly I noticed that it was affecting my RL. I started ignoring things that really mattered, I was unnecessarily cold to my husband, couldn't sleep at night, basically exhibiting all behaviors of a real life affair and when the SL guy told me he loved me, I realized… yes things had gotten way too far out of control and ended it shortly after, cutting the guy off completely, even though it hurt to do so. So a word to the wise, for people that think that SL relationships, when you are involved IRL, isn't cheating...it pretty much is. You might not think so at first but trust me your behavior and actions will start to speak for themselves. So to those that think that its okay to conduct something in SL and be married IRL, no its not okay. I hurts others as well as yourself and the person/avatar you are involved with. Real feelings get invested, and its just not worth the trouble it causes. Trust me on that....
pathetic nerds hahaha
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